So much has occurred in just a few days...

I havent been able to keep up with Raja's journey, day by day, because we had a lot of adjusting to do! No time for writing...or documenting... all though I wish I had!

Almost immediately after taking Raja in, I had written Heather Hovis, the Mission PETS Animal Communicator and a dear friend of mine, asking her if she could help Raja to trust us... and for Butch to like Raja! She had some amazing things to say, as she always does, and I shared her message with my closest friends and family who were on this journey with me (and Raja).  She assured me that Raja was a gentle, loving soul who had been severely neglected and had become depressed.  She spoke to Raja and told her we loved her and she can trust us and that she can tell the difference between people who meant well and who were guided by the "lack of light."  She also assured me that Ursa, my beloved Rottie who passed away in November, had made sure that I found Raja to help her.  Ursa related to Raja as a "sister" - a kindred spirit.  She asked Raja to be shown how to play and be loved by Ursa and Butch.   She also told me that this was good for Butch, because he had been missing Ursa's presence in the home.

So what happened after that? As a brief summary, Raja began walking around the day after she came "home."  I opened the kitchen gate, and she got up from laying down (where she had been all night and into the morning) and we went outside to see if she had to go to the bathroom... she hadn't even been out to potty from when I took her home.  She went to the bathroom outside right away.  We came back in, and she walked around, sniffing around.  

Now that she was "mobile," my Boxer, Butch, didnt seem to like her much!  He would growl at her and avoid her at all costs.  She didnt seem to want to bother him much since he wasn't showing any interest in her but she did go back to see him here and there.  She rested most of the day, as my daugther played around her.  And she got up here and there.  The day progressed this same way... this same pattern occurring... until bed time.  I let her stay out with us in the living room, instead of putting her back in the kitchen.  I woke up in the middle of the night, and found her - cone head - staring at Butch with her tail wagging.  He was on the couch sleeping.  It was really funny.  She was just waiting for him to play!  But, he didn't play.  I was beginning to think that maybe this was not going to work... but Heather said this was good for Butch, too! Why didn't HE see that?

This is Raja resting on Tuesday, March 29, 2011... 

And resting, with Ava playing behind her (Ava had just come out of the bath... and yes she likes being naked).

Day 3... Wednesday, March 30, 2011... 

This is Raja by the table, resting, as we ate breakfast.

I was getting worried and anxious that the two of the dogs were not getting along and I wondered if Butch would ever come around.  After all, my daugther is 18 months and he still gets up and runs away when she comes too close.  I began to feel discouraged.  But I wanted to be proactive! The past 2 days were rather annoying, having to keep Raja on a leash... and chasing her around to make sure she didnt go near Butch.  Because, as the days were rolling by, she was becoming more interested in him in a playful manner.  Even outside, where Butch is most comfortable, he seemed to try to get away from her with his tail tucked (he has a lot of fear issues we havent been able to fix quite yet.)  Needless to say, I got nothing done for days... having to keep a constant eye on her and make sure she didn't get too close to him.  The last thing I wanted was for him to growl or instigate a fight with a nearly 80lb, previously-neglected Rottweiler.  I tried to come up with something, I called my dad to ask if he thought they'd ever get along, and he said give it time... I reminded him how long it had been since Ava was born and how Butch still is unsure of her when she gets right next to him.  I was frustrated to say the least.

I decided I'd try to give him a treat every time Raja went near him to make him think it was a positive experience.  Raja comes close, Butch gets a yummy treat (his favorite kind)!  An hour or two later, I took them outside and he initiated play! I couldnt believe it.  My grumpy old man had turned a corner... but was it for real?  Permanent?  Raja didnt care, she was just so excited he was playing with her.  She is, after all, a big puppy.  When they came in the house, it continued.  Butch seemed to like her!  This was truly a blessing for me, and I was so grateful. I dont know if my treat idea worked, or if he came around on his own, but that night... they played for hours! Inside and out (soft play where they would just mouth each other, she grabbing his legs and him bouncing away, since she just had her spay surgery).  I was beyond elated.  This was a dream come true.  

A walk together, Butch and Raja, on Wednesday morning.

Little by little, Raja began to come out of her shell.  Each day she'd do something new or show a new side to her wonderful personality.  Within a day or two of having her, she began to wiggle her nubby tail when she saw the family she recognized.  She'd get excited to see us in the mornings and as we came back after being out.  She wanted to be petted constantly!  

Here's Raja getting loved and petted.  She was pet an hour or more until she fell asleep right next to my Dad... This photo was taken Tuesday, March 29, 2011.

(ADDITIONAL PHOTOS - TAKEN ON WEDNESDAY - OF A SMILING AND BEAUTIFUL RAJA ARE POSTED BELOW) 

Anyway, she was turning out to be a big mush! And a big puppy at that... by Wednesday night or Thursday (I dont remember exactly which), she had started mouthing as you pet her because she was so excited.  She also began to barge out the back door to go out because she loved it so much, walking and sniffing outside.  The transformation that was unfolding was so incredible it was surreal.  This was a dog that was previously neglected and shut down at the shelter... and she was like a normal dog, a puppy even!  She was playful and fun and loving.  She was smart, learned to sit for a treat immediately, and wanted to please.  She was curious and active yet gentle at the same time (all though she did knock my daugther down a few times because she didnt know where her butt was).  

I quickly realized that, in true Rottie fashion, she had become my shadow.  Ursa would follow me no matter where I went.  And being she had hip displaysia, torn ligaments and arthritis, I felt so bad that she would do this. I'd try to run back and forth quick before she had a chance to notice I was gone... but it didnt work.  Raja followed suit.  She could be in a dead sleep, and if I left the room... she was right behind me.  As  I am typing this, she is lying next to my chair.  Everywhere I go, there she goes, too.  And she wants to be pet every where we go, too! LOL 

Some photos taken of Raja on Wednesday... I'd say she looks happy, wouldn't you?

Thursday, March 31, 2011... The progress was still remarkable to me, and I continued to be thrilled by it and humbled by it.  Each day was full with surprises... "what will Raja do today?"  One funny thing she did, it was about 4 am and I had woken up and petted her (she was sleeping right beside where I was, but on the floor) and then tried to go back to bed.  She began pulling my hair, biting it, to get my attention. LOL  Too funny.  It reminded me of when Ursa would grab chunks of your hair and yank if you were facing the opposite direction.  Raja was a bit more gentle - I dont think I lost any strands like I did with Ursa.  

By Thursday, she was a brand new dog, seemingly at ease in her new home and with her new family.  She still showed fear outside when new people would walk by... but that is to be expected.  I havent had any guests since she arrived so that she could adjust to her new environment.  But she seems to be thriving! She is so happy, full of life (just like Ursa) and a joy to be around.  Heather Hovis had told me that Raja had so much love and light to share with the world... and I agree.  I feel like my heart is smiling and shining a bit more these days with Raja present.  And her connection to Ursa makes me feel somewhat whole, again.